Canada, the Lord has not forgotten you. There is a mantle of revival and reformation over your nation, and the seeds of past moves of God are ready to sprout once more. The Spirit of the Lord is hovering over your land, preparing to breathe new life into dry places and awaken dormant wells of revival.
Let’s be honest—rejection is tough. That gut-punch of “No thanks, we’re good without you” can leave you questioning your worth, your efforts, and sometimes even your purpose. But what if rejection isn’t a full stop? What if it’s a divine opportunity? What if being canceled, overlooked, or unappreciated is actually positioning you for something greater?
When we think about the story of Christmas, it’s easy to focus on the manger, the shepherds, and the star shining brightly in the night. But how often do we stop to ponder the scandalous, profound reality of what this all means? God—infinite, all-powerful, and holy—became human. Not a polished, glowing superhero, but a vulnerable baby who cried, stumbled, and grew up facing the struggles of everyday life.
Today, we’re focusing on one of the most critical—and sometimes misunderstood—aspects of marital healing: seeking outside help.
Whether you’re facing communication breakdowns, toxic control patterns, or even navigating the complex terrain of a narcissistic spouse, involving the right third party can make all the difference. But how do you know where to start? And how do you find someone who can genuinely help? Let’s explore this in detail.
We’re continuing our blog series on What to Do When Your Marriage is in Trouble. If you haven’t caught the previous entries yet, do yourself a favor and go back to the beginning. Trust me—it’s worth it for the full picture, because all of these ideas build on each other. Today’s topic: confronting your spouse directly when issues arise—and why avoiding this step can keep you trapped in cycles of resentment, gossip, and unaddressed pain.
