Isolation Breeds Suspicion

Isolation Breeds Suspicion

Suspicion grows best in the dark.

When we’re hurt, when trust is fractured, when trauma has left its fingerprint on our souls, the temptation is to retreat. To circle the wagons. To pull back from people because people were the problem.

Isolation doesn’t just keep us “safe.” It breeds suspicion.

Suspicion whispers, “You can’t trust them. They’re out to get you. Better watch your back.” And soon, suspicion metastasizes into paranoia. Paranoia convinces us we’re discerning when, in fact, we’re simply afraid.

But the Bible tells a different story.

The Compatibility Code

The Compatibility Code

Most of us think of the fruit of the Spirit as a private list.
Love. Joy. Peace. Patience. Kindness. Goodness. Faithfulness. Gentleness. Self-control.
Nine nice words to hang on a wall.

But what if Paul wasn’t handing us a personal development checklist?
What if he was describing a compatibility code?

Watch the Mission or Join It

Watch the Mission or Join It

And God is still looking.

Not for tourists.
Not for spiritual nomads, camera in hand, chasing the next holy Instagram post.
Not for ministries trying to pose in front of Antifa graffiti.

Not for spectators.

He’s looking for people.

People who build.
People who move in.
People who stay.

When the People Cry Out

When the People Cry Out

There’s a moment—
A shift.
A sound too raw, too human, too urgent to ignore.

It doesn’t come from enemies.
It comes from within the walls.
From the people we thought were safe.
From the voices we trained ourselves not to hear.

They weren’t strangers.
They were family.
The very people of God.

Build And Defend

Build And Defend

We love the idea of building.

The thrill of starting something new. The excitement of vision, calling, purpose. The sense that we’re participating in something bigger than ourselves.

But what happens when opposition shows up?

What happens when the enemy sees what you're building and decides it’s worth tearing down?

Most people hesitate. They assume that if an idea is truly from God, it shouldn’t require a fight.

Nehemiah knew better.

Revival Begins at Home

In Nehemiah 3, as the walls of Jerusalem were being rebuilt, the workers weren’t assigned random sections of the city. They built opposite their own homes.

Their own neighborhoods.
Their own streets.
Their own front doors.

Why?

Because before you build anything significant, before you restore what’s broken in the world, you have to secure what’s happening in your own home.

Nehemiah’s people understood something we often forget: a city isn’t strong if its families are weak.

How Poor Counseling Can Hurt Your Marriage

How Poor Counseling Can Hurt Your Marriage

Today, we’re focusing on one of the most critical—and sometimes misunderstood—aspects of marital healing: seeking outside help.

Whether you’re facing communication breakdowns, toxic control patterns, or even navigating the complex terrain of a narcissistic spouse, involving the right third party can make all the difference. But how do you know where to start? And how do you find someone who can genuinely help? Let’s explore this in detail.